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A new psychological study has uncovered a surprising connection between psychopathic traits and post-breakup behavior. Researchers found that individuals scoring higher on psychopathy tests—those with manipulative charm, emotional detachment, or strong self-interest—are significantly more likely to stay friends with their exes after a breakup.
At first glance, this might seem like emotional maturity. But scientists say the motivation is often strategic, not sentimental. People with higher psychopathic traits may maintain these friendships to retain access, control, or personal advantage, rather than genuine affection or closure. In other words, the bond continues—but the reason behind it changes.
Interestingly, researchers also found that many of these individuals exhibit high social intelligence. They know how to read people, influence emotions, and maintain just enough connection to keep others within reach. It’s not always malicious—sometimes it’s about curiosity, convenience, or ego—but it reveals how differently certain personalities handle emotional ties.
Psychologists emphasize that this doesn’t mean every ex who stays friendly has dark motives. For many, friendship after love comes from respect and shared history. Yet the study highlights how personality shapes the way we navigate loss and attachment.
It’s a fascinating reminder: not every friendly smile after goodbye comes from the same place. Some hearts heal, others calculate.
Source: Factology
