Psychology suggests that the smarter a man is, the harder dating often feels. Higher intelligence can bring deeper standards, analytical thinking, and emotional caution — but also overthinking, perfectionism, and challenges with vulnerability. A recent study of men) found that higher general intelligence was linked to fewer insults or coercion and stronger relationship investment. Still, emotional intelligence and mutual compatibility remain key to romantic success.
Source: Vance et al. (Men’s general intelligence and partner-directed behaviors, 2024); Meta-analysis on emotional intelligence & relationship satisfaction (2022)”.
